GUEST BLOG- Staying connected through parenthood

Welcome to this week's waffle, where we linger a little longer on the general back to school, back in the groove theme, to acknowledge that, despite all our upbeat intentions, family life can sometimes get hard. Flippin' hard, in fact!! 

On the bad days, it's a messy combination of wading through treacle, running up a down escalator and herding cats (with a healthy dose of parental guilt that you 'should' be feeling grateful for the privilege).

No wonder that the constant juggle puts pressure on even the strongest relationships. Couples who previously felt close and worked well together can suddenly find themselves arguing about who emptied the dishwasher, whose turn it is to get up with the baby, or why one person seems to be carrying more of the mental load. Such circumstances can easily create an unfortunate cascade of health related issues (mental and emotional of course, but also physical) So it's well worth investing as much as possible in some preventive strategies. 

September: The Real New Year for Growth and Change

September heralds a time when many of us reassess our priorities, re-enter routines, begin new roles, face organisational change, or prepare for the year ahead.

Issues that we've been too busy or distracted to notice over the playful and social summer months can come back to the fore. A career that no longer excites us. A leadership challenge we've been avoiding. A dream we've postponed for another year. A confidence issue that keeps holding us back. A relationship that is coming to an end.

If any of this resonates, then fear not, because this week we have a guest blog post from executive coach, writer and friend of Winchester GP, Lynne Copp. Thank you Lynn for talking us down from our 'September Scaries' and helping us to remember that the season is, in fact, simply brimming with potential! 

Stick or Twist? How to know when to change treatment?

Welcome to this week’s waffle where, inspired by the latest machinations at 10 Downing Street, we are musing on the theme of how to know when to “stick or twist”. Because in medicine, as in politics, it can be challenging to know whether pushing on with the current plan is better than throwing it all out and trying something entirely new — or is it a case of more subtle refinements that will reap greater rewards in the fullness of time?

Promoting calm in the name of smooth transit

Promoting calm in the name of smooth transit

The current Strait of Hormuz blockade is a great case of geo-politics imitating what your doctor has long known- effective transfer of ‘goods’ through a narrow canal needs a tension free environment! Inner calm is key to digestive comfort and efficiency - read on to learn how the sympathetic and parasympathetic systems need to reach a global understanding for this to happen.

When the financial world is chaos, focus on the one asset that really matters

When the financial world is chaos, focus on the one asset that really matters

The last weekend in March is traditionally when I feel motivated to get a few life sorting ducks in a row- a bit of financial planning, bit of travel planning perhaps - all of which seems a little bit compromised right now. So I’m satisfying my urge to feel in control of something meaningful by playing around with a financial management approach to wellbeing. It's not perfect, but see what you think...